Chapter 2

“You either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside and hustle for your worthiness.” –Brene Brown Saturday the 6th of April was my birthday and boy was it whirlwind of emotions. But not for the reasons you might think. This time last year I had such a great celebration. A dear friend let me use her mega mansion in the middle of nowhere (Literally in the middle of nowhere) to host ...

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Chapter 1

So, divorce. I am officially divorced. How do I feel? Right now, I feel great, I feel at peace and I feel happy. Do I feel this way every day? No. Absolutely not. Sometimes I feel hurt, ashamed, guilty angry and sometimes even sad. But I do not feel regret. But I guess the question is, what happened. I’ve been asked this so many times and there is no short ...

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Words from my Love…

Our Love "Our love is patient. Our love is kind. Our love is also really hard. And sometimes our love has been so hard that it’s left us wondering if it’s worth it. Real love accompanies pain, disappointment, hurt. I’m learning that it’s just what happens when you take your heart out, put it in a box and give it to someone. Someone usually imperfect and flawed. Someone that wants to be ...

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The Difference of Colors

Being in a place where there are very few people like you, you stand out. I didn't get this at first. Obviously everyone else notices but finally after a while I began to notice too. I began notice that I dress differently, I walk differently and I talk differently. Deeper than that I laugh differently, I think differently, but largely, I love differently. And that's what I want to focus ...

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Thoughts on Happiness

Happiness is the key to the success in all other areas of your life. The right mood will give you the right outcome. I agree that to a certain extent happiness is a genetic issue. Nature over nature. When I think about it I realize that I am lucky to have this “happy gene.” It comes easy for me and I could not imagine my life another way. I agree with ...

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